| My father wants me to be a football player! |
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| Written by Organização BFF2010 |
| Monday, 04 January 2010 14:32 |
 When your son was born you hung on the door of the room at the hospital, the shirt of your team, it was already part of your dreams, but what if he choose another team? Wish a future for your children is nothing wrong, quite contrary, the child needs someone to anticipate her future, and it's parents or those on the paternal and maternal functions, which always idealize in the past was considered a good future, that is, all have found ourselves as children or teenagers thinking that the day we had our children we would do differently from our parents, and we would give our children what we have or do not haved. So when you have a child is the time to write a story, the story of our childhood. The profession that they will follow can ensure a future of peace, stability, security and perhaps even wealth. In the land of football, with so many aces as a success, recognition, and financial , would not be so many parents who dreamed their children to be a great player for a renowned club. This dream takes an emotional investment too large and the small schools are there to give themselves the possibility of performing this demand. Sometimes the dreams of adults may have a very high price to pay for the children. The collection is great and can even be cruel. Every child has the desire to gain recognition and admiration of their parents, this is a demand for love. To do this try to do what they perceive, consciously or unconsciously, is the desire of their parents. When parental expectations beyond the child's condition when the parents fail to see his son and  _obsessively and only see their own dream, can cost the child, yet emotionally fragile to deal with such pressure, a sense of failure, incompetence and futility, very big. And, hence, the future can point to someone who will struggle to win their own dreams, it will always carry within them a sense of doubt of their potential and capabilities. You can spend a lifetime without knowing, seeking recognition of their parents, felt as never conquered. For anyone following this reality you can see father and mother cursing her young son who lost the ball to the opponent or failed to score. Do not screams at your child, encourage him, speak words of encouragement and let him realize that you love and that is always by your side regardless of whether he has done well or not. He does not have to be the player that you could not be. There are other sports, other professions, let it out. You at first dreamed him and believe it was very important, but now let him dream his own dreams, encourage him, support, love. So it will grow confident, secure, emotionally mature, with more opportunities to feel accomplished and happy. Let him hit a beautiful goal in the life. A 2010 full of dreams and achievements for all!
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